tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-71171752024-03-08T16:23:04.859+00:00fikeleIn Xhosa means something like "I have arrived" or "Reached my goal"Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.comBlogger184125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-20697424834519194572010-04-23T21:36:00.001+01:002010-04-23T21:37:15.615+01:00Vandag n ander Nelson ontdek!!!Ek hy is DUITS! en n filosoof...<br /><br /><a href="http://www.friesian.com/nelson.htm">http://www.friesian.com/nelson.htm</a><br /><br />Hy klink na n interresante ou!<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-80870025065897235592010-04-09T22:14:00.001+01:002010-04-09T22:16:14.035+01:00ek praat...ek praat baie! ek praat met almal, ek praat om die pyn weg te praat... maar dit help nie die verlange is te veel net te veel...Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-78100067775009770482010-04-08T22:46:00.002+01:002010-04-08T22:48:22.957+01:00Vandag...was n fantastiese dag, so ry ek verby Wallingford met die laat middag son vol op my gesig en dis lekker warm, Azam Ali, se Innal Malak, vibreer deur my ou lyf en dit voel amper perfek... behalwe vir die pyn wat in my hart resoneer...Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-9547713032271738492010-03-10T08:53:00.002+00:002010-03-10T09:04:31.842+00:00Nou vind hulle dit uit!Dis 22 jaar te laat vir my!!! dit verklaar nogal baie vir my! dus as jy in 'n "stressed" toestand is dan evalueer jy jou "self" minder (dus nie so "hoog" as normaal nie) so... jy kies n maat glad nie soos jou "self" is nie wat normaalweg die manier is waarop jy n maat kies...<br /><br /><a href="http://www.physorg.com/news187386705.html">http://www.physorg.com/news187386705.html</a><br /><br />dit laat mens BAIE dink want, DIT beteken dat jou (lewens)maat wat jy kies, moet jy doen in n "relaxed" of normale toestand... sodat jou selfbeeld terugkeer na n gebalanserde toestand.<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-56175897779704426872010-03-08T21:00:00.002+00:002010-03-08T21:15:05.151+00:00Nou ja daar het jy dit...So ver in my lewe het ek die gevoel slegs een keer belewe...<br /><br />"Finding that there is a prevalence of self-change experienced when a romantic relationship ends provides a testament to the power of loss that impacts one's sense of self"<br /><br /><a href="http://www.physorg.com/news187276994.html">http://www.physorg.com/news187276994.html</a><br /><br />"This research is the first to demonstrate the unique contribution of reduced self-concept clarity to the emotional distress that individuals experience post-breakup."<br /><br />"become implicated in romantic relationships would also contribute valuable information to the study of the self in a relational context. Given Andersen, Chen, and Miranda’s (2002) theory of transference of the relational self—that individuals carry relational prototypes and scripts with them throughout their lives—uture work should endeavor to investigate whether old self-in-relationship representations from former relationships can be merely transferred onto<br />new partners. If so, it may be reasonable to hypothesize that this transference would lessen the impact of breakup upon individuals’ selves, as they never have to truly discard their<br />self-in-relationship representation. This could also have interesting implications for relationship functioning to the degree that individuals’ cognitive interdependence with a romantic<br />partner is not tailored to that specific partner but is the result of a general self-in-relationship model that is applied to all romantic partners."<br /><br />Die laaste aanname dink ek nie stem ek totaal mee saam nie, tot n mate ja maar... ek dink nie dis noodwendig vir n roemantiese partner nie... snaaks vir my is dit wel waar MAAR ek kan sien 'n situasie waar miskien nie so HOEF te wees nie...<br /><br />Tog dit laat mens dink... (natuurlik moeilik om met iemand te bespreek...)<br /><br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-56088255085487997702010-03-08T14:22:00.002+00:002010-03-08T14:26:02.790+00:00Nuwe PTSD navorsing...Ek vind die navorsing baie in lyn met wat ek voel...<br /><br /><a href="http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20527501.400-beyond-torture-the-future-of-interrogation.html?full=true">http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20527501.400-beyond-torture-the-future-of-interrogation.html?full=true</a><br /><br />the psigiese trauma het n groter invloed as die fisiese trauma, en ook die feit dat dit dissosiasie vir veroorsaak, dit is iets wat mens ook sien in masogitiese verhoudings, so die bevindinge verklaar baie goed vir my.<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-9042278393496223172010-01-23T20:37:00.001+00:002010-01-23T20:38:54.010+00:00This is interesting and potentially dangerous research... So males are more utilitarian in behaviour than females, and hence males are also more prone to criminality than females? They suggest that females have a chance in altruistic behavior over time as their brains change, males have a lesser pre-programmed altrusit...ic behaviour repertoire? I would like to see what effect Buddhist meditation has on these results, as it also seem to cause neuro-plasticity.<br /><br /><a href="http://bit.ly/5PBI2o">http://bit.ly/5PBI2o</a>Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-83933096323164309042010-01-11T15:55:00.003+00:002010-01-11T16:39:56.373+00:00goeie kommentaar oor wat die internet doen aan ons...<a href="http://www.edge.org/q2010/q10_index.html">http://www.edge.org/q2010/q10_index.html</a><br />Ek dink HIERDIE is die beste kommentaar wat ek nog gehoor het... omdat dit op n Borges<br />boek(e) gebaseer is... een van my gunsteling.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edge.org/q2010/q10_4.html#oxman">http://www.edge.org/q2010/q10_4.html#oxman</a><br /><br />"In his "On Exactitude in Science", Borges carries on with similar ideas concerning trace as he describes an empire in which the craft of cartography attained such precision that its map has emerged as large as the kingdom it depicts. Scale, or difference, was now replaced by repetition. A model within itself, such a map embodies the dissimilarity between reality and its representation. It becomes the territory itself and the origin loses authenticity; it achieves the state of being more real than real as there is no reality left to chart."<br /><br />Dis n pragtige beskrywing van hoe Gödel die Principia Mathematica gebruik het om sy on voltooidheid teorie te bewys.... PRAGTIG!!<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-17621518979210463572009-10-29T20:11:00.003+00:002009-10-29T20:12:46.476+00:00n opvolg op die depressie... navorsing....Ek wonder wat Susan Blackmore et al. sal se hieroor??? memes' controlling genes of viceaversa?<br /><br /><a href="http://www.physorg.com/news175955032.html">http://www.physorg.com/news175955032.html</a><br /><br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-19718747304213958652009-10-28T16:24:00.002+00:002009-10-28T16:29:02.816+00:00Die vrae wat hier mee oop gegooi word kan diep sny...so mense wat in 'n meer moontlikheid van depressie het bepaal die tipe society waarin hulle bly om die depressie te verminder...<br /><a href="http://www.physorg.com/news175895586.html">http://www.physorg.com/news175895586.html</a><br /><br />maar in societies waar jy n mengsel van depressie en nie-depressie moontlikhede het is meer indivualisties en veroorsaak ook meer kroniese depressie... en dit alles tot op die gene vlak...<br /><br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-51871852847753047402009-10-28T16:20:00.001+00:002009-10-28T16:23:16.602+00:00dit lyk asof werk nie goed is vir 'n perd of mens nie...nou daars n lekker ding<br /><br /><a href="http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0007625">http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0007625</a><br /><br />NÉ!<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-87531590199916509492009-10-26T09:34:00.002+00:002009-10-26T09:38:13.154+00:00speed of life...Dit lyk asof one vinniger as die "speed of life" beweeg... Ek is nou net klaar met die boek Quirkology <a href="http://www.quirkology.com/">http://www.quirkology.com</a> Baie baie interessant en skrikwekkend (oor wat ons gedrag se oor die "societies" waarvan ons n deel is)<br /><br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-23672751416207146042009-10-23T09:07:00.002+01:002009-10-23T09:16:34.083+01:00Uiteindelik weet hulle!!!Hoekom elke wave in slow mo in jou kop af speel!!!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20427311.300-timewarp-how-your-brain-creates-the-fourth-dimension.html?DCMP=OTC-rss&nsref=online-news">http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20427311.300-timewarp-how-your-brain-creates-the-fourth-dimension.html?DCMP=OTC-rss&nsref=online-news</a><br /><br />Jou brein neem informasie in diskrete snapshots in teen omtrent 13 hertz, (of 13 frames per sekonde) nou... soos jou adrenalien vloei, absorbeer jou brein meer informasie, MAAR nog steeds teen 13 Hertz!! so wanneer jou terug dink aan die wave sien jou brein baie meer informasie as normaal in n spesifieke tydperk, so dit voel asof tyd stadiger was amper soos wat HD (High Definition) TV se slowmo soveel beter is as normale TV...<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-83723203236424794412009-10-22T21:13:00.001+01:002009-10-22T21:14:37.783+01:00Fromm se Melk en Heuning van moeder liefde...Wek my bekommer oor my eie kinders...<br /><br />Ek hoop ek kan ook daai heuning voor sien.<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-21509792413762438382009-10-21T20:32:00.002+01:002009-10-21T20:35:11.577+01:00Waar het Ek? daai self nou weer versit???hulle kan maar net nie daai "self" vind nie!!!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0007527">http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0007527</a><br /><br />miskien sal hulle begin besef dis net nie DAAR nie...<br /><br />ek kan die buddhiste al hoor... jeeezzz hoe lank neem dit julle!!! om na ons te luister!<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-67101191294705187822009-10-20T16:44:00.003+01:002009-10-20T16:53:48.119+01:00uiteindelik n goeie artikelwat die mense in die UK n die waarheid oor hulle idees vertel met n bietjie geskiedenis in gemeng...<br /><br /><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/adamcurtis/2009/10/kinshasa_city_number_two.html">http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/adamcurtis/2009/10/kinshasa_city_number_two.html</a><br /><br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-68301941034289429622009-10-19T16:32:00.002+01:002009-10-19T16:35:32.456+01:00Verder denke oor hoekom Schadenfreud mense so LEKKER laat voel...<a href="http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0007402">http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0007402</a><br /><br />"In other words, these data show that, in a direct social confrontation, individuals' choice behavior is more strongly affected by the feelings of envy and gloating than by the emotions of regret or relief"<br /><br />So miskien is die buddhisties self ondersoek en neutralisering van negatiewe gevoel nie SO 'n slegte ding nie.<br /><br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-51030432756378990962009-10-19T16:16:00.002+01:002009-10-19T16:19:50.791+01:00Ek sit vandag weer en weer kyk na die fotos...Ek sit en dink HOEKOM<br /><br /><a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/in_pictures/8285501.stm">http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/in_pictures/8285501.stm</a><br /><br />die fotos my SOOO laat verlang...<br /><br />ek dink dis die droogte, die hitte die rooi stof die fantasties prag van die eenvoud en tog se dit so baie en alles laat my aan jou dink...<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-49263222590147472242009-10-16T21:24:00.001+01:002009-10-16T21:25:56.013+01:00Wel dis amper Movember...En ek dink DIE Movember gaan ek DIT doen!!!!<br /><br /><a href="http://uk.movember.com/">http://uk.movember.com/</a><br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-8985875541500872032009-10-16T18:35:00.003+01:002009-10-16T18:39:46.092+01:00En ek dag almal kry hondervleis vir sekere musiek!!!Wel dit blyk nie ALMAL KAN nie!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0007487">http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0007487</a><br /><br />n baie interressante stukkie navorsing!<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-76303517129063981722009-10-13T15:28:00.002+01:002009-10-13T15:39:44.889+01:00die illusie wat terug veg...daar is verskillened self's wat in ons bewussyn bestaan op dieselfde tyd, die illusie wat ons EK noem veroorsaak geweldig baie smart...<br /><a href="http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20427291.100-out-of-your-head-leaving-the-body-behind.html?full=true">http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20427291.100-out-of-your-head-leaving-the-body-behind.html?full=true</a><br /><br />En jy dink jy ken jouself, my vraag wie is jouself en kan die vraag wie enige sin he? die rosary analoog van ons bewussyn stroom beeld dit so mooi uit...<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-60065566172303873342009-10-13T13:44:00.002+01:002009-10-13T13:47:41.136+01:00As Sam SO kan speel....<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmJ7jyIJnn4">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmJ7jyIJnn4</a><br /><br />koop ek hom NOU n viool!!!<br /><br />God en sy encore!!<br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=trlKK6SrFI0">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=trlKK6SrFI0</a><br /><br />So n kunstenaar herinner my aan n dag in die Endler saal, en n orrel stuk...<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-80837548700793568322009-10-12T16:26:00.002+01:002009-10-12T16:27:18.801+01:00So ontdek mense elke dag iets meer...Nog iets wat mens laat dink...<br /><br /><a href="http://www.physorg.com/news174559861.html">http://www.physorg.com/news174559861.html</a><br /><br />Na n moeilike naweek ligte vermaak?<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-12093464489407924262009-10-07T20:53:00.003+01:002009-10-07T21:07:28.649+01:00interressant brokkie op afgekom... oor Jung...so in my soeke na die Red Book<br /><br /><a href="http://www.newenglishreview.org/blog_display.cfm/blog_id/23098">http://www.newenglishreview.org/blog_display.cfm/blog_id/23098</a><br /><br />Allen Dulles ook interressante man... sy beroemde quote...<br /><br />"The United States of America does not have friends; it has interests".<br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7117175.post-61985774772299433382009-10-07T19:33:00.002+01:002009-10-07T19:37:27.733+01:00Die sal IETS wees om te sien...<a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/rss/-/2/hi/entertainment/arts_and_culture/8295650.stm">http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/rss/-/2/hi/entertainment/arts_and_culture/8295650.stm</a><br /><br />sal moet uitkyk vir die boek...<br /><br />Wat!!!! 95 pond!!!<br /><a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Red-Book-CG-Jung/dp/0393065677/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1254940473&sr=8-1">http://www.amazon.co.uk/Red-Book-CG-Jung/dp/0393065677/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1254940473&sr=8-1</a><br /><br />prentjies lyk goed!!!<br /><a href="http://www.onpointradio.org/2009/09/carl-jungs-red-book-images">http://www.onpointradio.org/2009/09/carl-jungs-red-book-images</a><br /><br />#R;Roy Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17742330742531093952noreply@blogger.com0